Hi Sweetie — would you like to go on a date with me this weekend?
Our Daily Rhythm
Steven
New Jersey (ET)
8:00 AM
Wake up
8 – 9
Devotional
9 – 11:30
Deep work
11:30 – 1p
Call you ♥
5:30 – 7
Exercise & study
10 – 10:30p
Plan tomorrow
10:30 – 11
Shower
11p – 1a
Call you ♥
1:00 AM
Asleep
Bonnie
Taichung (TPE)
10:00 AM
Wake up
10 – 1p
Morning, lunch & Steven ♥
1p – 10:30
Your day
10:30 – 11
Shower
11:00 PM
In bed
11p – 1a
Talk to Steven ♥
1:00 AM
Asleep
This week's goal: Enforce our new sleep schedule together. Steven: 7 hrs (1 AM – 8 AM). Bonnie: 9 hrs (1 AM – 10 AM). We hold each other accountable.
This Week
Mon
Steven → TMJ doctor, 3:00 – 3:30 PM ET
Tue
Bonnie → Bridal shop to check on dress 💗
This wk
Bonnie → Doctor appointment for blood work 🩹 Please schedule it this week, sweetie
Favor
Also sweetie can you take my glasses out in the sun sometime? Thank you :)
Sat
Bonnie → Lunch with Rebecca Huang, Sat 11:30 AM – 1:00 PM TPE
Sat
Date night! Sat 10 PM – Sun 1 AM TPE (Steven’s Sat 10 AM – 1 PM ET)
Sun
Sermon together + pray & plan next week (Sun afternoon TPE / Sat night ET)
Sun
Bonnie → Haircut, Sun 4:00 – 6:00 PM TPE
Date Time
💕
Saturday Night, April 18
Bonnie: Sat 10:00 PM – Sun 1:00 AM TPE
Steven: Sat 10:00 AM – 1:00 PM ET
Steven: Sat 10:00 AM – 1:00 PM ET
You pick what sounds good below.
Escape Room
Online escape room we solve together over video call.
Couch Clues
Each of us gets different clues. We piece them together.
Paint Together
We both paint the same thing. It'll look terrible and that's the point.
Wavelength
One-word clues, spectrum guesses. Quick rounds that show how we think.
Gottman Card Decks
Conversation cards by marriage researchers. Questions about each other's world — not small talk.
Let's Talk About
1
What do you think of the schedule, sweetie? Does it work for you?
2
Wedding — we don’t have to talk about planning until you feel safe, sweetie. No pressure.
3
Honeymoon — where are we on planning? Let's pick a destination this week.
Grow Together
Sunday Sermon Together
Sweetie, let’s try something new. Each week, one of us picks a sermon for us to watch together on Sunday. I’ll start this week. We can have our Bibles open, take notes, and see how God speaks to us. Afterwards, we pray a blessing over each other for the new week ahead.
Bible App Plan
We can also start a couples plan on the YouVersion Bible App if you want. There are a lot of good ones. We can pick one together.
Our Goals This Week
Steven
Keep the new schedule — asleep by 1 AM every night
Deep work 9 – 11:30 AM every morning
Exercise at least 4 days this week
Start writing my NYU MSRED application
Improve our website with your suggestions
Work on rebuilding emotional safety for you
Bonnie
Schedule doctor appointment for blood work
Asleep by 1 AM, wake by 10 AM
Praise dance workout videos together — 3x this week!
What else? Tell me and I’ll add it here
Sunday — Pray for Each Other
Pray for Steven
Discipline and consistency with the new schedule
Wisdom at work — a lot of moving pieces right now
Virtual assistant hire — posted the job, praying for good applicants
NYU application — clarity and motivation to start writing
Pray for Bonnie
Health — that everything goes well at the doctor
Bonnie’s mom — also going to the doctor, praying everything goes well
Peace and good rest every night
A Gift for You
🎁
Claude Pro — for you
Sweetie, I got you Claude Pro — the AI I use every day. I want you to try Claude Cowork — it’s different from regular chat. You can work on real projects together with it.
How to use Claude Cowork:
1. Sign up at claude.ai with the link above
2. Once you’re in, look for “Cowork” — it lets Claude work alongside you on longer tasks, not just quick questions
3. Upload your files: PowerPoint, Excel, Word, PDF — drag and drop right into the conversation
4. Ask it to help with real work: “Edit this PowerPoint for me,” “Organize this spreadsheet,” “Translate this document to Chinese,” “Create a presentation from these notes”
5. It connects to Notion, Gmail, Google Drive, and Google Sheets too — so you can ask it to draft emails, organize your Notion, or analyze your spreadsheets
6. The difference from ChatGPT: Claude Cowork keeps context across your whole project. It remembers what you’re working on and builds on it. Much better for real work with files and folders.
Ideas for what you can use it for:
• Help with your dad’s company — financial reports, business documents, translations between Chinese and English
• Turn messy notes into clean PowerPoints or Word docs
• Analyze spreadsheets — drop in an Excel file and ask “what are the trends?” or “make a chart”
• Draft professional emails in English or Chinese
• Summarize long PDFs or contracts — just upload and ask
• Wedding planning — budgets, vendor comparison, timeline tracking
• Research anything — it browses the web and gives you organized answers
You already know ChatGPT — Claude’s regular chat works the same way. Cowork is the upgrade: it’s like having a work partner who can read, edit, and organize your documents with you. Try uploading a file and see what happens!